What Happened to You?

Sensitive people often face terrible traumas and this thing leaves deep marks on the personality of a person. Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perry have tried to change the shape of a question that is often asked when we go wrong at a certain place. The statement which comes to the ear of a person when he is going through trauma is “What is wrong with you?”.

The two authors think that this is a wrong statement because people should ask “What happened to you?” instead because there is nothing wrong with a person rather the circumstances in which he finds himself actually cause the problem. Instead of helping that individual in the situation of trauma, we start asking irritating questions which makes the situation worse.

The two authors have created the book in a form of conversation and whoever is listening to these thoughts is basically becoming a part of that conversation. Both the authors are trauma experts so we know that they are saying the right thing and the ideas they provide are surely the right ones. It will not make you able to understand others rather it will also make you able to diagnose the problems going on in your mind as well.

We don’t have to be afraid of the past rather we should see the problems in it so that we might not allow them to occur in the present or future. The Path Made Clear and What I Know for Sure further enhance the thinking capability of the individuals. Such books not only allow you to think but also provide you with an opportunity to try something different in life.